This exercise helps you discern your top values. Generally it is good to identify around 5.
Begin by circling all the values from the attached list that resonate as important to you. Then start to group words with similarities as a way of narrowing them down. Choose 5-6 values that seem to most accurately describe how you live your life. Add your own value(s) if it is missing from the list.
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To help identify your top values, consider these questions.
What helps me feel most grounded?
What is most important to how I choose to live my life?
What enables me to be the best version of myself?
When do I feel most connected to what’s important to me?
What would be missing in my life if I didn’t have this value?
Once you have your top values list, answer these questions.
What are 2-3 behaviours that support this value?
What behaviours or actions can derail you from living according to this value?
What is an example of a time when you were living fully into this value?
What people in your life actively support this value?
List of Values
Accountability
Achievement
Adaptability
Altruism
Ambition
Authenticity
Balance
Beauty
Being the best
Belonging
Boldness
Career
Caring
Challenge
Cheerfulness
Collaboration
Commitment
Community
Compassion
Competence
Competitiveness
Connection
Consistency
Contentment
Continuous Improvement
Contribution
Control
Cooperation
Correctness
Courage
Creativity
Curiosity
Decisiveness
Democraticness
Dependability
Determination
Dignity
Discipline
Discretion
Diversity
Effectiveness
Efficiency
Empathy
Enjoyment
Enthusiasm
Environment
Equality
Excellenece
Expertise
Fairness
Faith
Family
Financial Stability
Fitness
Focus
Forgiveness
Freedom
Friendship
Fun
Generosity
Goodness
Grace
Gratitude
Growth
Happiness
Hard Work
Harmony
Health
Honesty
Honour
Hope
Humility
Humour
Inclusion
Independence
Ingenuity
Inquisitiveness
Insightfulness
Integrity
Intellectual Status
Intelligence
Intuition
Joy
Justice
Kindness
Knowledge
Leadership
Learning
Legacy
Love
Loyalty
Making a difference
Mastery
Merit
Obedience
Openness
Optimism
Order
Patience
Perserverance
Positivity
Power
Preparedness
Pride
Professionalism
Quality-orientation
Recognition
Reliability
Resourcefulness
Results-oriented
Self-actualization
Self-control
Self-reliance
Selflessness
Service/Volunteerism
Shrewdness
Simplicity
Speed
Spirituality
Spontaneity
Stability
Status
Stewardship
Strategic
Strength
Success
Support
Teamwork
Temperance
Thankfulness
Thoroughness
Thoughtfulness
Timeliness
Tolerance
Trustworthiness
Truth-seeking
Understanding
Uniqueness
Unity
Usefulness
Vision
Vitality
Wealthy
Well Being
Wisdom